How to make the 'first night' exciting?

Back in the days of virgin brides, the so called ‘first-night’ sex was like an earth-shattering event. As 71 percent of women thinking it's all right to have sex before marriage, and 35 percent who agree on the advantage of cohabiting before tying the knots, things have certainly changed, now.
A Marriage Survey, conducted in the USA, say many young women today have tried every move in the book by the time they hit their wedding-night sheets.
And having all of that experience under your belt, literally, can present a challenge when it comes to making things new and exciting once your commitment is sealed officially.
Couples often create an image in their minds of how much better sex will be once the rings are on. But a wedding ceremony in itself doesn't transform your intimate life. You have to take charge of breathing new energy into it.

Anticipating the fun
Building up anticipation can make newlywed sex more intense. When couples abstain from sex in the weeks before their nuptials, they may find that their wedding-night sex is the best sex of their lives. Simply because it was so eagerly anticipated. This is a technique you can use long after the honeymoon is over. The psychology is simple human nature: You need it, you want it, and you can't get it yet…and that makes you want it all the more.
What's going on here is not only psychological but physical as well.
Physiologically speaking, an absence of bedroom activity causes your hormones to rage. This likely makes your partner look even sexier and more desirable to you. Hormones are powerful chemicals, as powerful for women as for men.

Let your man in command
First, let your man in on the plan so he doesn't feel rejected. Then feel free to tease him for hours, days, or even a week. Whether you're writing him suggestive e-mails during the workday, giving him long, lingering kisses and nothing else, or sleeping next to him naked while initiating other things but not intercourse, you're creating that necessary tension. By the time you give in, you'll both be incredibly worked up, which will lead to stronger orgasms.