The Art of Courting

When God is said to have created girls, he meant them to be so attractive that men would fall and be ready to do almost anything to have her attention. Since God can never be wrong- men are falling upon each other ever since to please her to their carnal gains.
Like most other creations, girls too, sometimes feel sad. But as The Great Creator would have it, they keep their feelings to themselves. They have an amazing capacity to cry within their hearts. Just leave her alone for a while and she would be ok.
Same is true about her anger. She will not easily express her anger upon the man she loves. It doesn’t mean she will condone him all the time. Not at all. She will only try to keep her cool. Sense it and maintain a safe distance. Hold your apologies for a while. Then go to her and say sorry with a genuine smile.

Hold for a while
When she ignores you after you've done something wrong, it's best to hold your apologies for a while. When a girl becomes fond of a person, her feelings usually last a life time. Even if starts flirting with someone else, it will be her first love that will occupy most of her grey cells. It doesn’t mean, again, that you may take liberties for granted.
Like most mothers about their children, a girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves. She loves every thing genuine but is easily swept away by some flattery. Never miss a chance to compliment her.
Whenever you look at her and smile, look deep into her eyes. Chances are, she will melt. Expect to be rewarded handsomely afterwards. She loves your kisses all-right, but lip-lock her only when she desires. And desires she a lot.
If you are not serious about your compliments about a girl, be careful. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stares. Tell her gently how do you actually feel about her.

Listen your way to Adam's paradise
A patient listener stands to gain much in relationships. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves. No wonder, so many girls are in journalism.
Nobody likes to be commented negatively. Nor does a girl. So, never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway. Leave a margin of nonchalance about her. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
When you call her, don’t be put off by her cool response. Initially she will be only like that. The girl may act uninterested during the call. But if she cares about you, she will go to town telling her friends about your call, as soon as the phone is back on the hook.
It is wise if you don't risk guessing a girl's feelings. Ask her like a gentleman. Hearing the words ‘I love you’ is a considered to the best compliment to a girl. Possibly, she'll wonder why she never noticed you before.

Going steady
Stability in relationship is most valuable to most of the girls. Some care about looks, some care about brains, but all girls want a guy who will love and care for them.

Love and be loved.